IT’S REALLY ABOUT ALL RELATIONSHIPS: IS A BLONDE LEADING THE BLIND?
(ASSESSMENT: IT’S ALL A RELATIONSHIP REAL ISSUE)
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NOTE: This INTENTIONALLY THOUGHT PROVOKING DFW LEADER ARTICLE first started as a FACEBOOK (http://www.facebook.com/therealTaveau) around Dec 30, 2017 . comment, the mushroomed into an outright article!
RESPECTFULLY SUBMITTED TO THE CHRISTIAN LEADERS, COMMUNITY.. AS AN ABIDING JAMES 3:17 WELL INTENTIONED SELAH
WHILE I WILL NOT, AND HAVE NEVER EVER TAKEN personal offense by the many (overly WAY too many) DUMB BLONDE wise cracks. (meaning never once said directly to me, but heard too many …mainly over TV, in sometimes (well-meaning) Certain Area Circles, etc) YET, after living in the DEEP SOUTHWEST since 2005, I now big time noticed how TV, even kind, wonderful TV leaders, can give IGNORANT CLUELESS probably MAMA HATING (observed as very UNINTENDED but ENDORSEMENTS) to any given busy achieving Local Yocals …to put down GOD’S REAL WOMEN.
AND kept covered and surreptitious… meaning ASSESSED Big CULTURALLY as the MANY worship deep south/ “Mom’s lifetime doted upon, ADORED…BIG BABY BOYS. “(KEEPING PERSPECTIVE: Happily not all MEN are like this, my dear late father, extended family and all (healthy) personal current friends are NOT one bit User chauvinists /observed entitled Mama’s Deep South BIG BOYS….but happily…..these are meaning DEEPLY RESPECTFUL apostolic Big Quality HUMANS… who also happen to be males!)
BUT ALLOW ME PLEASE to put each of the following remarks in context.
1) I have been in apostolic (genuine work planting ministry) full time ministry nearly all of my LIFE…
2) it has never been seen as in any way ELEVATED, much less surrounded and/or with CHRISTIAN celebrity, neither have I needed or WANTED an entourage .
3) Rather, it is behind the scenes on the FRONT LINES of primarily GRASSROOTS (supposedly Salt of the EARTH) abiding REAL LIFE RELATIONSHIPS.
(NOTE THIS: this is based on real experience randomly…with “We’ve accepted Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior” quality types…. YET…As per my apparent usual: not accusing any other beliefs, faith, or secular). I will of course let them each evaluate for their own types, style and belief kind.)
THUS, I have to say: how often I’ve noticed how many GOOD OLE BIG EGO’S get emboldened by all this “Dumb Blonde” type of jokes …and then appear to take it and twist into an (soft undercurrent of) ACCEPTED, TOLERATED BIG EXCUSE for demeaning real clannish, mostly (the ONLY kind I have experienced) may be best discerned as ANTI RELATIONSHIP, subservient CONTROLLING…ANTI LOVING AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIP CHAUVINISM.
PURVEYORS OF WHO IS (apostolically) PINK: Also, I realize that it’s very (assessed as regionally) POPULAR to assume that ALL Real WOMEN “Think Perpetual Pink” (which I frankly DO NOT…and prefer different shades of BLUE and SUNNY (happy) YELLOW).
YET while I can handle pink on MANY OTHERS, to brand ALL LEADER WOMEN as “Only PINK”..leader UNDERESTIMATED, regarded as VAPID, over ambitious, SILLY, and/or approaching SINISTER, coming to SEDUCE/prophetically UNDERMINE,(etc)……
….ACTUALLY has been recently (peacefully) repeatedly EXAMINED, DOCTRINALLY and HUMAN FRUIT ASSESSED ….by this Equal Opportunity REAL RESPECT Human PERSON….(ALL NOTE: who was raised by an apostolic Faith Filled Gentleman Non BIASED Father..who was Not BACK UNDER Old Testament LAW..Thus the SHE, HER, discoursing FEMALE was reared, well regarded , very FIRST as a real PERSON (Ephesians 5:21 PRECEDES the often quoted, Ephesians 5:22) ….
AND THAT IS PRECISELY WHY (for purposes of convenience, ease, guilt free leader assessing) “ALL FEMALES” via the STEREOTYPICAL, TEMPLATE of GENDER TRADITIONAL LEADER STEREOTYPES ( regarded “Pallid Pink Ego Presumption” super strongly, reasonably APPEARS to bypass the “FEMALE” as an immature, forever childlike, vastly incapable, shallow and reminiscent of helpless, maybe sinful seductive Barbie…all of which is NOT one bit complementary..plus subtly invites RELATIONSHIP demeaning disrespect and closet accusation….not to imply that the GENDER, APPEARANCE infers “Now we can hold them BACK, possibly USE and take ADVANTAGE of them..for WE(I) are the ONLY ONES whom GOD truly blesses..as THEY (poor subservient OT Levitical second class) are LESS than “OUR” EQUAL??)
REMINDER: A RESPECTFUL ABIDING JAMES 3:17 INTENTIONAL THOUGHT PROVOKING SELAH
RECURRING REGIONAL REASON WHY?
I NEVER ONCE (meaning NOTICEABLY,Ministry ongoing) experienced (ministry) bigotry, misogyny and recurrent apostolic big CHAUVINISM ever before, MEANING: Until that ENDURING leader discovery time.
AND IT IS ONE MORE REASON that this HAIR COLOR OF THE APOSTOLIC BLONDE HER/SHE. currently takes a big STAND against ALL RACIAL, RELIGIOUS, GENDER Bias and PREJUDICE.
And fully train on SEE A RELATIONSHIP...NOT A RELIGIOUS STEREOTYPE.
NOTE ON THE ORIGINAL FACEBOOK ARTICLE, BUT TO HELP UNDERSTAND
NOTE: while the writer was raised Traditionally, in the sense of her senior pastor Fathers, amazing down to earth, fully respectful, not one whit racially, any human, biased, NOT into any kinds of CELEBRITY..and was “non legalistic” “freedom in New Testament ” non opportunistic sincere, yet apostolic CHRISTIAN MINISTRY…as both my patient gentlemanly FATHER and lively, very capable deep South, dear MOTHER, neither person was BACK UNDER THE OLD TESTAMENT LEVITICAL LAW. AND due to the mature WRITERS being raised with full authority yet minus LEVITICAL LAW..both the SHE and her kid SISTER grew up expecting fully that ALL OTHER Ministers, “Ye Must Be Born Again” fellow CHRISTIANS would be the exact SAME. BUT as the non novice WRITER bumped into MANY DIFFERENT EXTREMES in “Born Again” Christian mature leadership, the idea then came that MANY know are already by New Testament CHRIST “fully liberated” while sadly, very surprisingly MANY KINDS OF CHRIST FOLLOWING VALID OTHERS are truly NOT.
PS Apostle, Dr, Pastor, Sr Prophetic Professor, Writer, Founder TAVEAU and all ministry wide aspects are BIBLE SUBMITTED not back UNDER THE LAW, chief servant apostolic non autocratic, GOVERNMENTAL AUTHORITY GALATIANS 1:1-2 (like Apostle PAUL)
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